{"id":30714,"date":"2026-01-28T18:13:07","date_gmt":"2026-01-28T17:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/?p=30714"},"modified":"2026-02-05T10:04:53","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T09:04:53","slug":"contesta-tiones-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/28-01-2026\/contesta-tiones-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Contesta-tiones&#8230; 4"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9\u2026 no nos vemos como nos ven los dem\u00e1s&#8230;?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/category\/contestaciones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\" noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"525\" height=\"696\" data-attachment-id=\"30715\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/28-01-2026\/contesta-tiones-4\/ciego1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ciego1.jpg?fit=679%2C900&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"679,900\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Ciego1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ciego1.jpg?fit=525%2C696&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ciego1.jpg?resize=525%2C696&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-30715\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ciego1.jpg?w=679&amp;ssl=1 679w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ciego1.jpg?resize=226%2C300&amp;ssl=1 226w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 525px) 100vw, 525px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Tan imposible es o\u00edr nuestra propia voz de manera igual a como suena para aquellos que nos vienen a escuchar, que juzgarnos como lo hacen los dem\u00e1s. Nunca seremos capaces de observarnos reflejados en el espejo de la objetividad, si bien nos podremos aproximar a ella solicitando la opini\u00f3n de quienes nos la pueden mostrar&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9\u2026 no nos vemos como nos ven los dem\u00e1s&#8230;? Tan imposible es o\u00edr nuestra propia voz de manera igual a como suena para aquellos que nos vienen a escuchar, que juzgarnos como lo hacen los dem\u00e1s. Nunca seremos capaces de observarnos reflejados en el espejo de la objetividad, si bien nos podremos aproximar a &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/28-01-2026\/contesta-tiones-4\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuar leyendo<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Contesta-tiones&#8230; 4&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"yes","_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[355],"tags":[362,363],"class_list":["post-30714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-contestaciones","tag-objetividad","tag-respuestas"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5YpnT-7Zo","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":31155,"url":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/25-03-2026\/contesta-tiones-12\/","url_meta":{"origin":30714,"position":0},"title":"Contesta-tiones&#8230; 12","author":"Antonio J. 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