{"id":31006,"date":"2026-03-11T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-03-11T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/?p=31006"},"modified":"2026-03-10T10:59:43","modified_gmt":"2026-03-10T09:59:43","slug":"contesta-tiones-10","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/11-03-2026\/contesta-tiones-10\/","title":{"rendered":"Contesta-tiones&#8230; 10"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9\u2026 no utilizamos la misma medida para valorar lo malo y lo bueno que nos acontece&#8230;?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/category\/contestaciones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\" noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"525\" height=\"345\" data-attachment-id=\"31009\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/11-03-2026\/contesta-tiones-10\/diferentes-medidas1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Diferentes-medidas1.jpg?fit=1066%2C700&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1066,700\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Diferentes medidas1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Diferentes-medidas1.jpg?fit=525%2C345&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Diferentes-medidas1.jpg?resize=525%2C345&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-31009\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Diferentes-medidas1.jpg?w=1066&amp;ssl=1 1066w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Diferentes-medidas1.jpg?resize=300%2C197&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Diferentes-medidas1.jpg?resize=768%2C504&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Nuestra propensi\u00f3n a maximizar el valor de lo negativo de la vida frente a lo positivo que esta nos suele aportar parte de un miedo at\u00e1vico y general a estar mal. Err\u00f3neamente consideramos que la vida debe ser generosa con uno mismo por necesidad. Necesidad que imposiblemente tambi\u00e9n reclaman los dem\u00e1s, no quedando espacio en la actualidad para el bienestar universal&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9\u2026 no utilizamos la misma medida para valorar lo malo y lo bueno que nos acontece&#8230;? Nuestra propensi\u00f3n a maximizar el valor de lo negativo de la vida frente a lo positivo que esta nos suele aportar parte de un miedo at\u00e1vico y general a estar mal. Err\u00f3neamente consideramos que la vida debe ser &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/11-03-2026\/contesta-tiones-10\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuar leyendo<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Contesta-tiones&#8230; 10&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"yes","_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[355],"tags":[379,363],"class_list":["post-31006","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-contestaciones","tag-juzgar","tag-respuestas"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5YpnT-846","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":30578,"url":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/23-01-2026\/contesta-tiones-3\/","url_meta":{"origin":31006,"position":0},"title":"Contesta-tiones&#8230; 3","author":"Antonio J. 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