{"id":3166,"date":"2010-07-17T08:47:47","date_gmt":"2010-07-17T07:47:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/2010\/07\/17\/la-mentira\/"},"modified":"2026-04-20T11:23:45","modified_gmt":"2026-04-20T09:23:45","slug":"la-mentira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/17-07-2010\/la-mentira\/","title":{"rendered":"La Mentira"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"16409\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/17-07-2010\/la-mentira\/la-mentira-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/La-mentira.jpg?fit=750%2C533&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"750,533\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"La mentira\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/La-mentira.jpg?fit=525%2C373&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16409\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/La-mentira.jpg?resize=525%2C373&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"525\" height=\"373\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/La-mentira.jpg?w=750&amp;ssl=1 750w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/La-mentira.jpg?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 706px) 89vw, (max-width: 767px) 82vw, 740px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Llevo un tiempo practicando una sencilla estad\u00edstica personal a partir de la valiosa informaci\u00f3n que obtengo de mis clientes, alumnos, familiares, amigos y conocidos, para averiguar cu\u00e1l es aquella caracter\u00edstica de las personas que m\u00e1s censuran y menos llegan a perdonar. Sin pretender elevar a rango de teor\u00eda sociol\u00f3gica la conclusi\u00f3n obtenida, yo estoy muy de acuerdo con La Mentira, el resultado final.<\/p>\n<p>Hay muchas definiciones de Mentira, pero especialmente una recoge mucho de lo que es y tambi\u00e9n de lo que puede generar:<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><em>\u201cAcci\u00f3n y efecto de decir algo diferente a la verdad\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Me gusta esta acepci\u00f3n pues, a lo que todos entendemos como Mentir (<em>falsear la Verdad<\/em>) se a\u00f1ade sus posibles consecuencias, en realidad el elemento esencial y m\u00e1s identificante del acto de enga\u00f1ar.<\/p>\n<p>Pues bien, hay quienes consideran que, en funci\u00f3n de la tipolog\u00eda de Mentira, sus consecuencias pueden ser positivas o negativas y por tanto aquella no es mala se suyo, si no\u00a0en funci\u00f3n de como llegue a afectar.\u00a0Sin ascender a elevadas disquisiciones filos\u00f3ficas (Plat\u00f3n, Arist\u00f3teles, San Agust\u00edn, Kant, Tom\u00e1s de Aquino, etc. ya lo hicieron muy bien), yo no opino igual: para m\u00ed, toda Mentira es improcedente, cualesquiera sean las consecuencias (buenas o malas) que llegue a acarrear.<\/p>\n<p>Sinceramente considero que no habr\u00eda que Mentir pues, siendo la Verdad uno de los principales valores troncales de nuestra cultura occidental, nunca se deber\u00eda falsear la realidad. Pero esto no obliga a manifestarla siempre y en su integridad, no constituyendo enga\u00f1o alguno si no limitaci\u00f3n adecuada de la informaci\u00f3n en raz\u00f3n de las circunstancias y su idoneidad.<\/p>\n<p>La dificultad de no Mentir y adem\u00e1s cuando proceda no da\u00f1ar, estriba en cu\u00e1nto y c\u00f3mo comunicar la Verdad. Quienes defienden las <em>Mentiras piadosas<\/em> o <em>terap\u00e9uticas<\/em> lo hacen ante su escasez de recursos para afrontar situaciones con la sabidur\u00eda y el ingenio suficientes como para responder lo adecuado,\u00a0sin traicionar nunca eso que todos queremos encontrar por siempre en los dem\u00e1s\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u2026la Verdad.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\" align=\"center\"><strong><em>Saludos de Antonio J. Alonso Sampedro<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Llevo un tiempo practicando una sencilla estad\u00edstica personal a partir de la valiosa informaci\u00f3n que obtengo de mis clientes, alumnos, familiares, amigos y conocidos, para averiguar cu\u00e1l es aquella caracter\u00edstica de las personas que m\u00e1s censuran y menos llegan a perdonar. Sin pretender elevar a rango de teor\u00eda sociol\u00f3gica la conclusi\u00f3n obtenida, yo estoy muy &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/17-07-2010\/la-mentira\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuar leyendo<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;La Mentira&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"yes","_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[25],"tags":[45],"class_list":["post-3166","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coach-tiones","tag-comportamiento"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5YpnT-P4","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":22990,"url":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/17-07-2022\/re-flexiones-3-481-verdad\/","url_meta":{"origin":3166,"position":0},"title":"Re-flexiones&#8230; 3.481 (verdad)","author":"Antonio J. 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