{"id":3209,"date":"2009-09-26T19:23:44","date_gmt":"2009-09-26T18:23:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/2009\/09\/26\/dime-y-lo-olvido\/"},"modified":"2025-12-20T18:54:58","modified_gmt":"2025-12-20T17:54:58","slug":"dime-y-lo-olvido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/26-09-2009\/dime-y-lo-olvido\/","title":{"rendered":"Dime y lo olvido\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-wp-editing=\"1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"11800\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/26-09-2009\/dime-y-lo-olvido\/dime-y-lo-olvido-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/Dime-y-lo-olvido.jpg?fit=555%2C240&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"555,240\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Dime y lo olvido\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/Dime-y-lo-olvido.jpg?fit=525%2C227&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11800\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/Dime-y-lo-olvido.jpg?resize=439%2C190\" alt=\"Dime y lo olvido\" width=\"439\" height=\"190\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/Dime-y-lo-olvido.jpg?w=555&amp;ssl=1 555w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/Dime-y-lo-olvido.jpg?resize=300%2C130&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 439px) 100vw, 439px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790), estadista y cient\u00edfico norteamericano, vino a afirmar:<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><em>&#8220;Dime y lo olvido, ens\u00e9\u00f1ame y lo recuerdo, invol\u00facrame y lo aprendo&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>En tiempos del Sr. Franklin, el Coaching no se hab\u00eda inventado o quiz\u00e1s mejor, lo que no se conoc\u00eda era el nombre de la disciplina pues, sin saberlo, algunos lo llegaban a practicar.<\/p>\n<p>Mucho antes, en la antigua Grecia, desde S\u00f3crates y la May\u00e9utica ya se utilizaba la pregunta como fuente de conocimiento y resoluci\u00f3n de problemas, considerando que las respuestas est\u00e1n ocultas en la mente de cada ser humano y el encontrarlas solo depende de identificar los interrogantes adecuados que ejerzan de focos iluminadores en la oscuridad. Por esto se considera a S\u00f3crates el padre del Coaching, anglicismo que no beneficia a su comprensi\u00f3n total.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Qu\u00e9 raz\u00f3n ten\u00eda B. Franklin al distinguir entre <em>decir<\/em>, <em>ense\u00f1ar<\/em> e <em>involucrar<\/em>!.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8211; <em>Decir<\/em> atiende a todas esas comunicaciones que, bien referidas a temas importantes como a los intrascendentes, no somos capaces de trasladar adecuadamente a su interlocutor, malogr\u00e1ndose esa informaci\u00f3n por perdida de inter\u00e9s y curiosidad.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8211; <em>Ense\u00f1ar<\/em> ya requiere un esfuerzo mayor, pues la voluntad del ense\u00f1ante es que quien le escucha aprenda, aunque esto rara vez se da. En la mayor\u00eda de las ocasiones, el proceso de ense\u00f1ar solo consigue marcar un leve recuerdo en la mente del alumno que, con el tiempo, va desdibuj\u00e1ndose como un cuadro mojado por el agua de lluvia oto\u00f1al.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8211; <em>Involucrar<\/em> a los dem\u00e1s sin duda es lo m\u00e1s efectivo, pues consigue el aprendizaje \u00f3ptimo al vincular lo comunicado con el compromiso del receptor para tenerlo que usar. Involucrar no es ense\u00f1ar, porque ense\u00f1ar utiliza la respuesta, mientras que involucrar necesita de la pregunta m\u00e1s cabal.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfResponder o preguntar&#8230;?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\" align=\"center\"><strong><em>Saludos de Antonio J. Alonso Sampedro<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790), estadista y cient\u00edfico norteamericano, vino a afirmar: &#8220;Dime y lo olvido, ens\u00e9\u00f1ame y lo recuerdo, invol\u00facrame y lo aprendo&#8221; En tiempos del Sr. Franklin, el Coaching no se hab\u00eda inventado o quiz\u00e1s mejor, lo que no se conoc\u00eda era el nombre de la disciplina pues, sin saberlo, algunos lo llegaban a practicar. &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/26-09-2009\/dime-y-lo-olvido\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuar leyendo<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dime y lo olvido\u2026&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"","_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[25],"tags":[49],"class_list":["post-3209","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coach-tiones","tag-coaching"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5YpnT-PL","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":12483,"url":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/23-09-2016\/re-flexiones-1-458-aprender\/","url_meta":{"origin":3209,"position":0},"title":"Re-flexiones&#8230; 1.458 (aprender)","author":"Antonio J. 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