{"id":3353,"date":"2012-10-27T06:00:33","date_gmt":"2012-10-27T05:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/2012\/10\/27\/%c2%a1hablamos\/"},"modified":"2026-01-07T10:16:00","modified_gmt":"2026-01-07T09:16:00","slug":"hablamos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/27-10-2012\/hablamos\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a1Hablamos\u2026!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"hablamos.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hablamos.jpg?w=525\" alt=\"hablamos.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>No hace mucho tiempo, caminando por la calle, escuch\u00e9 el final de una conversaci\u00f3n telef\u00f3nica en donde un trajeado ejecutivo con el que me cruzaba la conclu\u00eda proclamando un animoso <em>\u00a1Hablamos\u2026! <\/em>y sin esperar contestaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Sin duda es muy habitual el terminar muchas de nuestras comunicaciones profesionales (telef\u00f3nicas o incluso presenciales) con esta expresi\u00f3n que, con la mejor pretensi\u00f3n de cortes\u00eda, representa uno de los mayores atentados a las normas de comunicaci\u00f3n efectiva, a la vez que una evidente desconsideraci\u00f3n hacia nuestro interlocutor al tratarle de iluso creyente de cualquier proposici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Toda conversaci\u00f3n telef\u00f3nica cuyo final pretenda derivar realmente en la concertaci\u00f3n de otra en un momento posterior, deber\u00e1 identificar claramente este y de quien partir\u00e1 la iniciativa para el nuevo contacto. Lo contrario, es decir, la indefinici\u00f3n, representa la hipocres\u00eda com\u00fanmente aceptada de eso que llamamos <em>quedar bien<\/em>, pero que todos sabemos no sirve absolutamente para nada pues ambos interlocutores est\u00e1n pensando lo mismo del otro: <em>no me llamar\u00e1.<\/em>\u00a0Y lo que es peor: ni tampoco yo&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\" align=\"center\"><em><strong>Saludos de Antonio J. Alonso Sampedro<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 No hace mucho tiempo, caminando por la calle, escuch\u00e9 el final de una conversaci\u00f3n telef\u00f3nica en donde un trajeado ejecutivo con el que me cruzaba la conclu\u00eda proclamando un animoso \u00a1Hablamos\u2026! y sin esperar contestaci\u00f3n. Sin duda es muy habitual el terminar muchas de nuestras comunicaciones profesionales (telef\u00f3nicas o incluso presenciales) con esta expresi\u00f3n &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/27-10-2012\/hablamos\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuar leyendo<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;\u00a1Hablamos\u2026!&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"yes","_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[25],"tags":[50],"class_list":["post-3353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coach-tiones","tag-comunicacion"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s5YpnT-hablamos","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8845,"url":"https:\/\/www.alonso-businesscoaching.es\/blog\/20-11-2014\/marath-tiones-70\/","url_meta":{"origin":3353,"position":0},"title":"MARATH-TIONES&#8230; 70","author":"Antonio J. 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